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Monday, April 14, 2025

Rainbow Dress + Doctor



 

I ordered this dress from SHEIN for only $12!  It’s good for  lounging around the house, or a gay pride parade. I look just like my deceased cousin Kathy here, when she was my age. 

Today I also had my first Pap smear in 10 and a half years. 

It was a male gynecologist. I know a lot of people don’t want to see male OBGYN’s, but he seemed to be trying really hard because he knows no one wants to see male OBGYN’s. That helped my anxiety a lot. (The fact that he seemed to be trying really hard, that is).  I am also not using the most effective contraception in the world due to mine and my husband’s ages, and he didn’t lecture me about that at all. I feel like a woman would have. I’m not really worried about having cervical cancer tho-  I’m just trying to get all the routine stuff out of the way. My biggest fear is dying from the cancers they never screen for. Even though I have not been for a decade, I went yearly before 2014, and always had normal results. 

5 comments:

  1. The dress looks stunning on you! My primary care doctor is female, but my OB/GYN is male, His father delivered my youngest son.

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    1. My mom’s doctor who delivered me was a woman, and the night I was born, the hospital had to send her a cab because her teenage daughter at the time took the family car out for a joy ride. Years later, we found her listed, (the daughter) and she had also become an OBGYN. My mom could tell it was her because of her first name and she also looked like her mom. I laughed out loud and thought, hope her kids never did the same to her, but her family probably would have progressed to having more than one vehicle.

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  2. It is beautiful. Love ❤️ the colours and what a great price. 👍 Thank you so much for sharing and I appreciate your visit and comment on my blog. I thankfully will be getting a computer this week but I will remember your recommendation on.Dafari.

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  3. That is a really pretty skirt. Love the colours.
    I am well overdue a pap smear. And a ritual boob squashing. I am booked in for the mammogram at least.
    Good luck with the test.

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  4. You look simply beautiful in that dress. Glad you went for the test and got could result.

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